cewe mandiri...
menurut pendapat beberapa orang, jadi cewe itu gak boleh terlalu mandiri... katanya mungkin itu penyebab cewe itu gak laku2 hehehe... karna konon, cowo2 tuh seneng kalo merasa dibutuhkan... dan cewe mandiri memberi kesan gak membutuhkan orang2 sekitarnya, apalagi makhluk yang namanya cowo... tapi, apa iya sih?? hari gini lho... masa cewe gak boleh mandiri sih?? seiring dengan tuntutan jaman, cewe2 mau donk ikutan serba bisa seperti kaum cowo... masa cuma cowo2 aja yang boleh... sayang donk perjuangan ibu kartini kita...
mandiri itu kan positif ya... bukan berarti trus mereka gak butuh lagi cowo untuk melindungi... tapi kebutuhannya mungkin jadi agak lain sekarang... cewe2 mandiri lebih membutuhkan partner... yang bisa menghargai... ketimbang suami yang menuntut untuk dilayani...
jadi, buat cowo2... jangan kuatir gak akan dibutuhkan ya sama cewe2 mandiri... =)
independent girl...
some people tend to think, that a girl should not be too independent... perhaps that's why she's still single hehehe... because apparently, boys like to feel needed... and independent girl gives out the impression that she doesn't need anyone, let alone boys... but, is that true?? in this era... how come girls can't be independent?? with the current era expectation, girls also want to be multi-skilled like boys... why only boys are allowed... pity, the effort of our ibu kartini maybe wasted... ibu kartini is the lady hero who fought for women education in indonesia...
i guess being independent is positive... not necessarily mean that girls no longer need the boys to protect them... but maybe the need is changing... independent girls need partner... who can respect them... instead of a husband who expect to be served...
so boys... don't worry for not being needed by independent girls, ok... =)
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